Paying the Price
Remember the two laws of goal achievement. The first law is
that you must always pay full price for achieving what you want.
The second law is that you must always pay in advance. Stop
looking for shortcuts and go to work - mentally and physically.
This is not new information. I have written about the concept of "bread of shame" before. There are unfavorable consequences to getting something for nothing.
I know I can have whatever I want if I am willing to pay the price. The price may be learning something new, changing my self concept, or postponing gratification. But I have to admit that I am always looking for shortcuts. I call it working smarter. Yes, there are better ways to do something, sometimes cheaper ways. But it is the underlying attitude I have of seeking to avoid possible rejection and for that matter
possible success that motivates my wanting to be rescued.
The price I don't want to take is that of asking for what I want, of developing human connections. Ironically it has also been the very point of great advance during power month. The greatest shortcut also turns out to be the biggest price for me. You have to love how meticulous the universe is at stacking the cards just right for each individul. It boggles my mind. Under every rock or in every article I find another answer to my question, "Why do I love my life so much".
I stand in awe.